Sisters Circle
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The Secret Sisters Circle
12 Contents
1️⃣ Stage One (Awareness) Lessons
1
STAGE ONE: Common Pitfalls (Renewal Path Action Item)
2
STAGE ONE: Taking Thoughts Captive (Renewal Path Action Item)
3
STAGE ONE: Understanding Codependency
4
STAGE ONE: Understanding Alcoholism
5
STAGE ONE: Managing the Rollercoaster of Emotions
6
STAGE ONE: What to Do with Anger, Bitterness, and Resentment
7
STAGE ONE: How to Deal with Lying and Deceit
8
STAGE ONE: Understanding Your Part In This
9
STAGE ONE: Acceptance: What It Is, and What It Isn't
10
STAGE ONE: Mindset Hacks to Keep You on Track
11
STAGE ONE: Habit Hacks to Keep You on Track
12
STAGE ONE: The SSC Toolbox
13
STAGE ONE: The W.A.I.T. Technique
14
STAGE ONE: Taking Thoughts Captive, Part Two
15
STAGE ONE: The T.E.A. Principle
16
STAGE ONE: What if I'm Not Seeing ‘Results’?
17
When Are You Ready to Graduate from Stage One?
2️⃣ Stage Two (Discovery) Lessons
1
STAGE TWO: Change It! (Renewal Path Action Item)
2
STAGE TWO: Boundaries (Renewal Path Action Item)
3
STAGE TWO: Communication
4
STAGE TWO: The Art of Healthy Detachment
5
STAGE TWO: How to Deal with Toxic Behavior
6
STAGE TWO: Navigating Your Physical Relationship with Your Husband
7
STAGE TWO: Crafting a Recovery Plan
8
STAGE TWO: How to Handle Relapse and Recovery Attempts
9
STAGE TWO: Understanding Co-occurring Disorders
10
STAGE TWO: Questions for a Sober Husband
11
STAGE TWO: How to Set Things Up to Protect Yourself
12
STAGE TWO: Kids and Addiction
13
STAGE TWO: Ruined Plans and Disappointment
14
STAGE TWO: What does it mean to ‘stay in your lane’?
15
STAGE TWO: Am *I* the Crazy One??
16
STAGE TWO: Surviving the Holidays with an Addicted Spouse
17
STAGE TWO: Ways to Be Intimate Other than Sex
18
STAGE TWO: Implementing Boundaries
19
STAGE TWO: Different Ways This Could All Play Out
20
STAGE TWO: How to Offer Encouragement to Your Husband
21
STAGE TWO: Staying Positive in the Negative
22
STAGE TWO: ‘Fake’ Recovery
23
STAGE TWO: Reconciling the Marriage You Have vs the Marriage You Wanted
24
STAGE TWO: Family, Friends, Intrusion, and Advice
25
STAGE TWO: Dealing with Guilt, Regret, and Shame
26
STAGE TWO: How to Be Heard by Your Husband
27
When Are You Ready to Graduate from Stage Two?
3️⃣ Stage Three (Strength) Lessons
1
STAGE THREE: Quiet Time (Renewal Path Action Item)
2
STAGE THREE: How to Deepen Your Relationship with God Study (Renewal Path Action Item)
3
STAGE THREE: How to Hear from God
4
STAGE THREE: Making Big Decisions
5
STAGE THREE: Finding Joy Through Deep Roots
6
STAGE THREE: React or Reset?
7
STAGE THREE: What is God doing?!
8
STAGE THREE: Trust In God Study
9
STAGE THREE: Experiencing Grief
10
STAGE THREE: What Your Prayer Life Should Look Like Right Now
11
STAGE THREE: Diving Into My Favorite Book of the Bible, Part One
12
STAGE THREE: Diving Into My Favorite Book of the Bible, Part Two
13
STAGE THREE: The Benefits of Faith-Based Meditation
14
STAGE THREE: Breaking Free Bible Study
15
STAGE THREE: Forgiveness: Why and How
16
STAGE THREE: When Gratitude Feels Impossible
17
STAGE THREE: How to Wait Well
18
STAGE THREE: For Such a Time as THIS?!: Lessons from Esther
19
STAGE THREE: What Does the Bible Say About Alcohol?
20
STAGE THREE: Are Negative Emotions Sinful?
21
STAGE THREE: Guided Meditation
22
When Are You Ready to Graduate from Stage Three?
4️⃣ Stage Four (Refreshment) Lessons
1
STAGE FOUR: Self-Care for Wives of Alcoholics (Renewal Path Action Item)
2
STAGE FOUR: Self-Worth Study (Renewal Path Action Item)
3
STAGE FOUR: How to Build a Life for Yourself Outside of your Husband's Addiction: A Step-by-Step Guide
4
STAGE FOUR: Let’s Talk About YOU
5
STAGE FOUR: How to Find Rest as the Wife of an Alcoholic
6
STAGE FOUR: Stay or Leave?
7
STAGE FOUR: What to Do When You Are S.P.E.N.T.
8
STAGE FOUR: Working Through Hard Feelings
9
STAGE FOUR: How to Create a Self-Care Action Plan
10
STAGE FOUR: Social Isolation
11
STAGE FOUR: Self Boundaries
12
STAGE FOUR: The Healing Practice of Journaling
13
STAGE FOUR: The Best New Years Resolutions for the Wife of an Alcoholic
14
STAGE FOUR: A Month of Intentional Happiness
15
STAGE FOUR: If you can't beat 'em, join 'em?
16
STAGE FOUR: Detoxing Your Life
17
STAGE FOUR: Gentle Ways to Care for Yourself
18
When Are You Ready to Graduate from Stage Four?
💻Live Mini Trainings from the SSC Group
1
Good Things Are Coming (November '24)
2
The Power of Changing It Up (October '24)
3
How to Be Okay 'Even If' (September '24)
4
Honoring Your Husband When He’s Not Acting Honorable (August '24)
5
Learning Lessons the Easy Way vs the Hard Way (June '24)
6
What exactly am I supposed to be getting out of the SSC? (May '24)
7
What to Do When You Don't Know What to Do (April '24)
8
The Power of 'Now' (March '24)
9
Best Practices for Using the SSC Audio Feed (February '24)
10
Taking What You Like and Leaving the Rest (January '24)
11
The Importance of Keeping Your Tank Full (November '23)
12
Boundaries In Action (October '23)
13
Decoding Your Feelings (September '23)
14
Getting Back on Track (August '23)
15
What does God want me to do??! (July '23)
16
Where's Your Focus? (June '23)
17
How to Be Ready When Your Husband Says He's Ready (May '23)
18
Addiction as an Idol (April '23)
19
The Biggest Thing That Will Keep You Stuck (March '23)
20
Reframing Relapse (February '23)
21
How to 'Work' the SSC Program (January '23)
22
Is Marriage Counseling a Good Idea? (December '22)
23
Biting Your Tongue (November '22)
24
How to 'Graduate' Stages in the SSC (October '22)
25
Staying in Your Lane (September '22)
26
Being Tested (August '22)
27
Who Do I Let In? (July '22)
🧰 SSC Toolbox/Bonuses
In this toolbox you will find several tools that you can quickly employ during those 'in the moment' struggles.
These tools will help get you back on track, recenter yourself, and get you past feelings of anxiety and overwhelm around your husband's drinking.
1
SSC Planner
2
'Working the Program' Tracker
3
SSC Lessons by Month Released
4
Scripture Ties (for managing negative thoughts)
5
Feelings Check-In Sheet (complete weekly)
6
Encouragement Wallpapers
7
10 Powerful Prayers to Pray Over Your Husband
8
Meditative Bible Verses for Every Mood
9
SSC Power Playlist
10
Stress Management Toolkit
11
Misc Daily and Weekly Planners and Trackers
12
Positive Affirmations
13
Book List/Recommended Reading
14
Uploads and Notes
15
Questions or Concerns?
📚 SSC Library (an index of lessons by topic)
The SSC Library contains all of the lessons that have been taught In the Secret Sisters Circle so far, organized by topic so you can easily find help with any problem you may be facing right now.
1
BOUNDARIES
2
STAGE TWO: Boundaries
3
STAGE TWO: How to Deal with Toxic Behavior
4
STAGE TWO: Navigating Your Physical Relationship with Your Husband
5
STAGE TWO: Implementing Boundaries
6
STAGE TWO: Family, Friends, Intrusion, and Advice
7
STAGE FOUR: Self Boundaries
8
UNTYING/DETACHING
9
STAGE ONE: Taking Thoughts Captive
10
STAGE ONE: Taking Thoughts Captive, Part Two
11
STAGE ONE: Acceptance: What It Is, and What It Isn't
12
STAGE TWO: The Art of Healthy Detachment
13
STAGE TWO: What does it mean to ‘stay in your lane’?
14
STAGE THREE: Forgiveness: Why and How
15
NAVIGATING DRINKING/DRINKING BEHAVIORS
16
STAGE ONE: Understanding Alcoholism
17
STAGE ONE: How to Deal with Lying and Deceit
18
STAGE TWO: Communication
19
STAGE TWO: Am *I* the Crazy One??
20
STAGE TWO: Ways to Be Intimate Other than Sex
21
STAGE TWO: Surviving the Holidays with an Addicted Spouse
22
STAGE TWO: Staying Positive in the Negative
23
CODEPENDENCY
24
STAGE ONE: Understanding Codependency
25
STAGE ONE: Common Pitfalls
26
STAGE ONE: Understanding Your Part In This
27
STAGE TWO: Change It!
28
KIDS IN THE HOUSEHOLD
29
STAGE TWO: Kids and Addiction
30
MAKING DECISIONS
31
STAGE TWO: Different Ways This Could All Play Out
32
STAGE THREE: How to Hear from God
33
STAGE THREE: Making Big Decisions
34
STAGE FOUR: Stay or Leave?
35
DIFFICULT THOUGHTS OR FEELINGS
36
STAGE ONE: Managing the Rollercoaster of Emotions
37
STAGE ONE: What if I'm Not Seeing ‘Results’?
38
STAGE ONE: What to Do with Anger, Bitterness, and Resentment
39
STAGE ONE: The T.E.A. Principle
40
STAGE TWO: Ruined Plans and Disappointment
41
STAGE TWO: Reconciling the Marriage You Have vs the Marriage You Wanted
42
STAGE TWO: Dealing with Guilt, Regret, and Shame
43
STAGE TWO: How to Be Heard by Your Husband
44
STAGE THREE: React or Reset?
45
STAGE THREE: Finding Joy Through Deep Roots
46
STAGE THREE: Experiencing Grief
47
STAGE THREE: Breaking Free Bible Study
48
STAGE FOUR: Working Through Hard Feelings
49
YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD
50
STAGE THREE: Quiet Time
51
STAGE THREE: How to Deepen Your Relationship with God Study
52
STAGE THREE: Trust In God Study
53
STAGE THREE: What is God doing?!
54
STAGE THREE: What Your Prayer Life Should Look Like Right Now
55
STAGE THREE: The Benefits of Faith-Based Meditation
56
STAGE THREE: Guided Meditation
57
BIBLICAL GUIDANCE
58
STAGE TWO: How to Offer Encouragement to Your Husband
59
STAGE THREE: Diving Into My Favorite Book of the Bible, Part One
60
STAGE THREE: Diving Into My Favorite Book of the Bible, Part Two
61
STAGE THREE: For Such a Time as THIS?!: Lessons from Esther
62
STAGE THREE: What Does the Bible Say About Alcohol?
63
STAGE THREE: Are Negative Emotions Sinful?
64
TAKING CARE OF YOURSELF/YOUR RECOVERY
65
STAGE ONE: Mindset Hacks to Keep You on Track
66
STAGE ONE: Habit Hacks to Keep You on Track
67
STAGE TWO: How to Set Things Up to Protect Yourself
68
STAGE THREE: When Gratitude Feels Impossible
69
STAGE THREE: How to Wait Well
70
STAGE FOUR: Self-Care for Wives of Alcoholics
71
STAGE FOUR: Social Isolation
72
STAGE FOUR: Self-Worth Study
73
STAGE FOUR: Let’s Talk About YOU
74
STAGE FOUR: What to Do When You Are S.P.E.N.T.
75
STAGE FOUR: The Best New Years Resolutions for the Wife of an Alcoholic
76
STAGE FOUR: How to Find Rest as the Wife of an Alcoholic
77
STAGE FOUR: The Healing Practice of Journaling
78
STAGE FOUR: How to Create a Self-Care Action Plan
79
STAGE FOUR: A Month of Intentional Happiness
80
STAGE FOUR: Detoxing Your Life
81
STAGE FOUR: How to Build a Life for Yourself Outside of your Husband's Addiction: A Step-by-Step Guide
82
STAGE FIVE: Your Transition: Outlining Your Long-Term Recovery Plan
83
STAGE FIVE: Crafting Your Future
84
YOUR HUSBAND'S RECOVERY
85
STAGE TWO: Crafting a Recovery Plan
86
STAGE TWO: How to Handle Relapse and Recovery Attempts
87
STAGE TWO: Understanding Co-occurring Disorders
88
STAGE TWO: Questions for a Sober Husband
89
STAGE TWO: 'Fake' Recovery
BOUNDARIES
2
STAGE TWO: Boundaries
3
STAGE TWO: How to Deal with Toxic Behavior
4
STAGE TWO: Navigating Your Physical Relationship with Your Husband
5
STAGE TWO: Implementing Boundaries
6
STAGE TWO: Family, Friends, Intrusion, and Advice
7
STAGE FOUR: Self Boundaries
8
UNTYING/DETACHING
9
STAGE ONE: Taking Thoughts Captive
10
STAGE ONE: Taking Thoughts Captive, Part Two
11
STAGE ONE: Acceptance: What It Is, and What It Isn't
12
STAGE TWO: The Art of Healthy Detachment
13
STAGE TWO: What does it mean to ‘stay in your lane’?
14
STAGE THREE: Forgiveness: Why and How
15
NAVIGATING DRINKING/DRINKING BEHAVIORS
16
STAGE ONE: Understanding Alcoholism
17
STAGE ONE: How to Deal with Lying and Deceit
18
STAGE TWO: Communication
19
STAGE TWO: Am *I* the Crazy One??
20
STAGE TWO: Ways to Be Intimate Other than Sex
21
STAGE TWO: Surviving the Holidays with an Addicted Spouse
22
STAGE TWO: Staying Positive in the Negative
23
CODEPENDENCY
24
STAGE ONE: Understanding Codependency
25
STAGE ONE: Common Pitfalls
26
STAGE ONE: Understanding Your Part In This
27
STAGE TWO: Change It!
28
KIDS IN THE HOUSEHOLD
29
STAGE TWO: Kids and Addiction
30
MAKING DECISIONS
31
STAGE TWO: Different Ways This Could All Play Out
32
STAGE THREE: How to Hear from God
33
STAGE THREE: Making Big Decisions
34
STAGE FOUR: Stay or Leave?
35
DIFFICULT THOUGHTS OR FEELINGS
36
STAGE ONE: Managing the Rollercoaster of Emotions
37
STAGE ONE: What if I'm Not Seeing ‘Results’?
38
STAGE ONE: What to Do with Anger, Bitterness, and Resentment
39
STAGE ONE: The T.E.A. Principle
40
STAGE TWO: Ruined Plans and Disappointment
41
STAGE TWO: Reconciling the Marriage You Have vs the Marriage You Wanted
42
STAGE TWO: Dealing with Guilt, Regret, and Shame
43
STAGE TWO: How to Be Heard by Your Husband
44
STAGE THREE: React or Reset?
45
STAGE THREE: Finding Joy Through Deep Roots
46
STAGE THREE: Experiencing Grief
47
STAGE THREE: Breaking Free Bible Study
48
STAGE FOUR: Working Through Hard Feelings
49
YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH GOD
50
STAGE THREE: Quiet Time
51
STAGE THREE: How to Deepen Your Relationship with God Study
52
STAGE THREE: Trust In God Study
53
STAGE THREE: What is God doing?!
54
STAGE THREE: What Your Prayer Life Should Look Like Right Now
55
STAGE THREE: The Benefits of Faith-Based Meditation
56
STAGE THREE: Guided Meditation
57
BIBLICAL GUIDANCE
58
STAGE TWO: How to Offer Encouragement to Your Husband
59
STAGE THREE: Diving Into My Favorite Book of the Bible, Part One
60
STAGE THREE: Diving Into My Favorite Book of the Bible, Part Two
61
STAGE THREE: For Such a Time as THIS?!: Lessons from Esther
62
STAGE THREE: What Does the Bible Say About Alcohol?
63
STAGE THREE: Are Negative Emotions Sinful?
64
TAKING CARE OF YOURSELF/YOUR RECOVERY
65
STAGE ONE: Mindset Hacks to Keep You on Track
66
STAGE ONE: Habit Hacks to Keep You on Track
67
STAGE TWO: How to Set Things Up to Protect Yourself
68
STAGE THREE: When Gratitude Feels Impossible
69
STAGE THREE: How to Wait Well
70
STAGE FOUR: Self-Care for Wives of Alcoholics
71
STAGE FOUR: Social Isolation
72
STAGE FOUR: Self-Worth Study
73
STAGE FOUR: Let’s Talk About YOU
74
STAGE FOUR: What to Do When You Are S.P.E.N.T.
75
STAGE FOUR: The Best New Years Resolutions for the Wife of an Alcoholic
76
STAGE FOUR: How to Find Rest as the Wife of an Alcoholic
77
STAGE FOUR: The Healing Practice of Journaling
78
STAGE FOUR: How to Create a Self-Care Action Plan
79
STAGE FOUR: A Month of Intentional Happiness
80
STAGE FOUR: Detoxing Your Life
81
STAGE FOUR: How to Build a Life for Yourself Outside of your Husband's Addiction: A Step-by-Step Guide
82
STAGE FIVE: Your Transition: Outlining Your Long-Term Recovery Plan
83
STAGE FIVE: Crafting Your Future
84
YOUR HUSBAND'S RECOVERY
85
STAGE TWO: Crafting a Recovery Plan
86
STAGE TWO: How to Handle Relapse and Recovery Attempts
87
STAGE TWO: Understanding Co-occurring Disorders
88
STAGE TWO: Questions for a Sober Husband
89
STAGE TWO: 'Fake' Recovery
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