Hey there, I'm Julie. I believe you've landed here for a reason and I'm so glad you did. Let's start off with three things I'd like for you to know....
I HAVE BEEN IN YOUR SHOES AND DEEPLY UNDERSTAND HOW IT FEELS
I married a good man who fell victim to addiction, just like you probably did. And even though my husband has been sober for a few years now, I still remember the hurt, anger, panic, and despair that his drinking caused like it was yesterday. It was the hardest time of my life.
I HAVE LEARNED SO MANY THINGS THE HARD WAY DURING THIS JOURNEY
There are SO many things that I learned while walking this road with my husband, and while going through both his recovery and my own. I know it feels so desperate to be where you are right now, but I want you to know that there IS something you can do....actually several things you can do....to get out from under these feelings of despair and moving in a much better direction, for both you AND your husband.
AND NOW I WANT TO HELP YOU
I am now a Recovery Mentor for wives of alcoholics. I offer programs and coaching that equips you with the tools and strength you need to navigate your husband's addiction without losing yourself in the process. I also teach you how to best help your addicted husband through this journey. I would love for you to take a look at the different things I offer here to see if anything resonates with you. I would be honored to help you navigate this difficult path.
The Secret Sisters monthly membership is just for you, my 'secret sisters' who are also married to an alcoholic.
I know firsthand how difficult this can be.
When my husband was deep in the throes of addiction I remember hearing that I should 'set boundaries', but that concept seemed fuzzy to me.
I'd try to set them, but they were ineffective, and it just ended up causing more and more resentment in my already troubled marriage.
But once I finally learned what healthy boundaries were...and were NOT...and how to actually create them in a healthy way it changed everything.
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A faith-based 30 day program for the wife of an alcoholic written by someone who has been down this road and deeply understands what you are going through.
This program will give you the tools you need to navigate this path, and teach you how to best help your husband AND yourself.
Nutrition and wellness made easy for the struggling and overwhelmed.
'Simply Nourished is designed to help YOU: the Christian woman who knows she needs to treat her body better, but feels too overwhelmed by her circumstances to even try.
Explore some of the foundational trainings from the Secret Sisters Circle, including an introduction to my signature 4-step ‘Renewal Path’ based on biblical principles.
As the wife of an alcoholic we know we need good boundaries, but most of us don't really understand what that entails, or what it would look like in our situation.
If you have wondered how to set healthy, effective boundaries with your alcoholic husband then this free Boundaries Workbook was created for you.
Feel like you're just spinning your wheels as the wife of an alcoholic?
If you need a breakthrough then this free on-demand workshop is for you.
It is SO hard to 'Let Go and Let God' when our husband is addicted. But it is also critical that we do so.
Partnering with God can not only provide immense relief for us through this, but also teaches us how to leave our husbands in the most capable hands there are.
If you are having trouble turning this battle over to the Lord then this Microcourse + Study is for you!
Are you struggling with your self-esteem as the wife of an alcoholic?
Or always doubting your decisions or ability?
Maybe all of the above?
Unfortunately those are all common occurences in this situation.
If you are having trouble in any of these areas then this Microcourse + Study is for you.